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There are many reasons I'm proud of my wife. Jennifer is a kick-*ss stage manager, universally acknowledged as the best in the local theatre community wherever we end up (whether off-off Broadway or on the East Bay). Everyone wants to work with her. She gets sh*t done. Knows her stuff. Denmothers the actors with finesse. Always professional, well-organized, and safety conscious. And she's put on some amazing shows. The musicals have been most impressive (from re-performances of City of Angels to Meet Me in St. Louis). She's even in the history books (in a history of a theatre she once worked for: Worthy But Neglected: Plays of the Mint Theater Company).
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I mention all this because stage managing is one of the areas where I get to see many of the qualities in Jen that I love so much. Another is in her "real job." For the longest time in our marriage she had to work jobs she hated just to pull a reliable income, from executive assistant in corporate publishing to office manager for a mall management firm. Always dealing with all the corporate bullsh*t many of you may be well familiar with (office politics, stupidity, mismanagement, ignorance, *ssholedom, and that's just the short list). Yet she was so good at her work she invariably ended up writing the manual on every job she held. Literally. Her employers were always devastated to see her go. But I'm sure they're still using her handbooks. One even still has her voice on the carpark ticket machines. And there was a lot I saw in her in those jobs that I loved, too. But I always hated the fact that she was never happy in them.
Then one day her mall management company wanted to do something it could promote as being "green"
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So while still employed there she started shopping around for a similar job but in a company that actually did something for the environment, and for serious, not facade. Since she didn't need a job, she actually didn't give a sh*t how she came off in interviews, or who called back, which actually ended up selling herself even better: she was relaxed and unabashedly honest and basically her normal funny self. Thus guaranteeing she would only get hired where she would actually be appreciated (rather than where she would have to "conform"). She could also pick who she worked for, and for what salary and benefits. Hence she was just as much interviewing them as they were her. An enviable position to be in.
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Apart from being yet another venue where all her great qualities and talents could shine, even more than ever before, and I could admire her yet again, now Jen also had a job she was truly happy in.
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She's happier now because (a) she likes everyone she works with and works for, (b) her bosses are rational, genuinely moral, and have a sense of humor, (c) they let her get things done in the way she knows they need to get done (no stupid arbitrary rules or instructions), (d) they treat her well, and (e) they actually listen to her and ask for her input on things (and really do want it). She feels like she's part of a team that takes her seriously, and really cares about the company and the work environment and the happiness of everyone on board. It's the way every business should be run, but hardly any ever are.
I would even argue the purpose of business is not to make money, but to secure the happiness of all who work in it. The making of a profit is a necessary means to that end, hence business must be savvy and competitive and well-run, but making money should never be the end in itself. The latter is to embrace a cold and inhuman and amoral life, while the former is to recognize the only valuable meaning in life. Bosses who grasp that make the world a better place, for themselves and everyone they work with and for. Bosses who don't, create little more than misery and useless coin.
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Nevertheless, what occasioned this excuse is an email Jen sent out to everyone she knew, which I excerpt here:
I’ve been working for a company called Vetrazzo for the last couple of years. We make truly gorgeous (and green) countertop material out of recycled glass and concrete. In fact if you haven’t heard from me in a long while Vetrazzo is probably the reason. I’m working my butt off over here!
The reason for this particular email is to beg a favor. We've made it to the top 20 of the Forbes 2008 Boost Your Business contest, and the final five will be decided by online voting. So we're reaching out to our friends and contacts to go online and vote for us, and if they feel so inclined to encourage their friends to do so as well. This would be a great boost (both marketing-wise and money-wise) to this fledgling company I've grown to love.
So I thought I'd ask this little favor, if you don't mind, please vote for us and pass it along to anyone else who might want to as well.
Thanks!
Jennifer Carrier
Chief Administrator
Vetrazzo, LLC
www.vetrazzo.com
If they win, they'll get a $100,000 development grant. I believe we should all support companies like this, not just because they are green, but because they care about their workers and create a work environment that is the way all companies should be. Precisely because they aren't being micromanaged by some cold profit-seeking supercorp or aloof ultrarich industrialist, they actually have a humanist outlook at every level of company management. This is the kind of enterprise that deserves a boost, and all it'll cost you is about sixty seconds of clicking and typing at a website. I'm sure they need a lot of voters to get into the final five (the winner will be picked from those), so if you share my values and beliefs, or if you just want to tip one my way by helping the company that's made my wife a happier gal, please Vote Vetrazzo.
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8 comments:
Done! Good luck!
Done. Best wishes.
Jacob
Vote cast! Best of luck.
It's too bad the internet jerks out there don't normally go by the title. If they could be polite enough to listen to the plea for decency, they'd already be polite enough to not be jerks in the first place.
I voted, btw.
I voted for Vetrazzo.
By the way, the first thing that popped in my brain when I saw the picture of the woman in the white top was, "Is that Richard Carrier's wife or Jennifer Connelly?" Either way, she's gorgeous, and you can tell your wife I said so.
Voted. Best of luck to her.
JT
James A. Brown: Well, of course the girl in the white top is Jennifer Connolly. My Jen is pictured at the top of the post. You'd have to scroll to compare. But thanks!
And thanks to everyone else who voted!
How the heck did I miss this post? That picture of Jen (YOUR Jen) is absolutely gorgeous.
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